Nothing you have said in here is incorrect, aside from the speculation, which in itself has truths.

I am very rarely proven wrong. It has happened a handful of times. Usually if I make a statement, it's not to be hurtful. It's not to try to hold things over heads.

I told you so is under the purview of the righteous. Doing the I told you so dance is sometimes about the only thing I get. Mine is generally the position of a person to be ignored or avoided while my friends do monumentally stupid things since I am usually the first to point it out. I also have a hard time being happy for people who are fucking themselves up or fucking up people I care about.

The I told you so dance isn't grudge-holding so much as a reminder to fucking listen to me this time around.

You're not the only one that parts of this post were directed at. I recall a few times when I was in severe need of someone saying all of the above to me, and because some of those times, no one said them, I figured I'd make a blanket statement to those I hold dear, and not so dear.

I do treat you differently than I did before March. There are reasons. None should be public.

You want to do one-on-one time, that's cool with me. If I have a few spare hours soon, I will let you know.